Yet they do not have to be. — I’ve been finishing up with watching this TV show called The 100 but ever since she first appeared on the cast, I’ve had a crush on Echo. Please don’t ask me why. I don’t know. I don’t know especially considering that there is/was/will be Lexa who is far more impressive…

I’m lucky to have someone that makes saying goodbye so hard — Should I be writing this? Something makes me think I should. I mean, I’ve used writing to power through a lot of emotions but those that surround “this incident” from 2 years ago have largely been ignored. The truth is that it hurts. Not that it hurts to be rejected……

Lessons from my 6 years on a different continent — It’s been 8 years since I first hopped to another continent for what would later turn out to be my longest time away from home thus far. I spent almost 6 years on a foreign continent, thousands of miles away from home or anything familiar. This is what I can…

Harmful realities at the core of religious practices — The opening story of this week was one that my dad just told me about a church that he says just opened up in Kampala, Uganda. My dad doesn’t go to church much (maybe once a year) but keeps up with the church stuff because he believes that politicians use…

It’s always a bad idea to project your expectations onto other people — Article inspired by Liz Holtz Manning’s response to Tim Denning’s post It’s always a terrible idea for men to project expectations onto women. Even though this sounds obvious in the sense of basic human decency, that’s not the only reason why it shouldn’t be happening. I would argue that many…

A discourse on high-value ideologies — This article is inspired by the article from Lishoné about Kevin Samuels and "high-value" ideologies. I remember the first time I heard about Kevin Samuels. It was not long after I had started reading Lishone’s work here on Medium. In that talk, Kevin Samuels was going on about how some…

A guide to making fast, confident and accurate decisions in times of extreme conflict in decision making — Many people miss out on the amazing benefits of intuition because we have not trained our minds to listen and pay attention to intuitive messages. Through a technique they devised to measure intuition, a group of researchers was able to conclude that people can use their intuition to make faster…

Currently, I have no clues. — Seven,… The seven steps I may take. I could drag them out to twenty-two as I walk in circles of doubt as per the lunacy of my audacity. Not more or less than that. That's the distance between me and you. Oh, I counted. I had to. It's one thing…

It’s the little things — At the beginning of 2022, what I struggled with the most was getting back out into the public. At that point, I had spent the last 7 or so months at home and I only went out about once every few months. But at the beginning of 2022, I was…