At the end of the day, all we are after is happiness or something along those lines.

I have already written about my version of unconditonal love but all the talks of unconditionality mean nothing if they do not get you closer to the wellbeing you seek.

I do not think you should be guilty of going where you are wanted. If that works for you and helps you sleep well at night, then you do that.

Why I attacked that type of advice is that some narcissistic people tend to use it to hurt others as they search for people who celebrate and appreciate them.

I cannot begin to say that I know half of the things that you go through navigating this world as a female. You are justified to do what you think is best for you as I don't think that the way you do it hurts anyone.