No no no no no no no no.. I am not saying that. OMG NO. I am not saying that I'm glad your not my mom. Parenting is something I know absolutely nothing about and you have done it with more than one child. Your decisions were clearly right as you managed to raise them.

I am saying that it scares me to turn 30 while still staying with my parents. As much as they may have given me an opportunity to stay with them, it is really easy to loose sight of that and end up coasting my life away. That comfort scares me. Some part of me needed parents like you who are a little tougher but I don't want to weigh any options because your methods are just as effective.

I am so sorry if it came off like that. No.